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But what exactly does a healthy relationship look like? How do you get and give respect? And what’s up with all the drama?

Yeah…we weren’t quite sure either. So we’re hitting the streets of Providence to talk to you (yes you) about everything from relationships and rumors to dramas and dating. We know you’re busy, so we might stage a surprise performance or a pull friendly prank to get your attention. 
Our goal is to get young people to talk about healthy relationships and hook up with respect. 
But if you or someone you know feels unsafe and needs help out of the situation call the Sojourner House 24 hour help line at 401-658-4334 or visit the website at www.sojournerri.org.

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The Game...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kynnt9Hp0L1qa63sno1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;img src="http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kynnt9Hp0L1qa63sno2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;img src="http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kynnt9Hp0L1qa63sno3_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;img src="http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kynnt9Hp0L1qa63sno4_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;img src="http://27.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kynnt9Hp0L1qa63sno5_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;img src="http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kynnt9Hp0L1qa63sno6_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;img src="http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kynnt9Hp0L1qa63sno7_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kynnt9Hp0L1qa63sno8_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;img src="http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kynnt9Hp0L1qa63sno9_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;img src="http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kynnt9Hp0L1qa63sno10_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;p&gt;THE GAME CHANGERS PROJECT IS GETTING OUT THE VOTE!!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The Game Changers is a project of hkupwithrespect! We’re making the world first video game to teach kids how to choose healthy relationships! This month, The Game Changers are in the running for a $250,000 grant in PEPSI’s Refresh Everything Competition!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;WE CAN WIN THE GRANT WITH YOUR VOTE!! JUST LOG ON TO &lt;a href="http://www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers"&gt;www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers&lt;/a&gt; and vote for the Game Changers!!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;VOTE EVERY DAY TO MAKE US NUMBER 1!!!&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/421966922</link><guid>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/421966922</guid><pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 07:53:33 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>HELP THE GAME CHANGERS PROJECT GET $250,000</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers"&gt;HELP THE GAME CHANGERS PROJECT GET $250,000&lt;/a&gt;</description><link>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/419376729</link><guid>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/419376729</guid><pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 01:27:34 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>HELP US WIN $250,000!! VOTE FOR THE GAME CHANGERS EVERY DAY IN...</title><description>http://www.youtube.com/HKupwithrespect#p/a/u/1/8SCzo-6DAhA&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;HELP US WIN $250,000!! VOTE FOR THE &lt;b&gt;GAME CHANGERS&lt;/b&gt; EVERY DAY IN MARCH!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers"&gt;www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The Game Changers is project from the kids who brought you hkupwithrespect.com! We are working with leading software developers to create a video game to teach kids about healthy relationships.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In March you can help the Game Changers take healthy relationships to the next level by &lt;b&gt;voting for The Game Changers @ &lt;a href="http://www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers."&gt;www.refresheverything.com/gamechangers.&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/419373732</link><guid>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/419373732</guid><pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 01:25:00 -0500</pubDate><category>The Game Changers</category><category>Refresh Everything</category><category>Sojourner House</category><category>One Planet Education Network</category><category>Healthy relationships</category></item><item><title>TODAY! Tune into HOT 106 to hear hkupwithrespect's PSAs!</title><link>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/404981282</link><guid>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/404981282</guid><pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2010 09:49:22 -0500</pubDate><category>hkupwithrespect</category><category>Hot 106</category></item><item><title>When Kyla finds out that Deshuan gave his number to the new...</title><description>&lt;object width="400" height="336"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/cAN9disG-YU&amp;rel=0&amp;egm=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="wmode" value="transparent"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/cAN9disG-YU&amp;rel=0&amp;egm=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="400" height="336" allowFullScreen="true" wmode="transparent"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;When Kyla finds out that Deshuan gave his number to the new girl, she gets mad at him for talking to random girls she doesnt know! After all, its her boyfriend, right? Deshaun is not too sure. He tells his boy Paul that he likes Kyla but their relationship needs to be about trust. But, does Deshuan &lt;b&gt;deserve&lt;/b&gt; the trust hes asking for? Theres always a FlipSide…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/384563562</link><guid>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/384563562</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 19:25:00 -0500</pubDate><category>hkupwithrespect</category><category>start strong rhode island</category><category>teen dating violence</category><category>young voices</category><category>dating abuse</category></item><item><title>When Deshaun gets Marisol’s number, Kyla wonders what’s going...</title><description>&lt;object type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="400" height="225" data="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=8053637&amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;fullscreen=1&amp;show_title=1&amp;show_byline=0&amp;show_portrait=0&amp;color=00ADEF"&gt;&lt;param name="quality" value="best" /&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /&gt;&lt;param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /&gt;&lt;param name="scale" value="showAll" /&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=8053637&amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;fullscreen=1&amp;show_title=1&amp;show_byline=0&amp;show_portrait=0&amp;color=00ADEF" /&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=8053637&amp;server=www.vimeo.com&amp;show_title=1&amp;show_byline=0&amp;show_portrait=0&amp;color=00ADEF&amp;fullscreen=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="400" height="225"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;When Deshaun gets Marisol’s number, Kyla wonders what’s going on. Caring/controlling? Where do you draw the line?&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/274656788</link><guid>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/274656788</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:40:00 -0500</pubDate><category>hkupwithrespect</category><category>Start Strong Rhode Island</category><category>Amber Johnson</category><category>samuel sayeh</category><category>Young Voices</category></item><item><title>Last year, the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned...</title><description>&lt;object width="400" height="336"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/FPX37P7WW9w&amp;rel=0&amp;egm=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="wmode" value="transparent"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/FPX37P7WW9w&amp;rel=0&amp;egm=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="400" height="336" allowFullScreen="true" wmode="transparent"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Last year, the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy reported that 1 in 5 teen girls have electronically sent or posted nude or semi-nude photos of themselves online.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Young people who send and receive naked pictures, even with someone they think they trust,  face serious and last consequences when these images slip out of their control and into the hands of almost anyone with an internet connection. The consequences of sexting can be serious and impact not only the people sending the pictures but the entire community.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;hkupwithrespect and Young Voices want to learn more about why teens risk their cyberreputation  and how we work together to help friends choose healthy relationships on and off line. So, we surveyed 619 youth about sexting, relationships and how we encourage our friends to keep it respectful. Then we sat down with the girls to talk about what we found.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And what sexting focus group wouldn’t be complete without David Bowie?&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/239850531</link><guid>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/239850531</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 22:49:06 -0500</pubDate><category>hkupwithrespect</category><category>Start Strong</category><category>Sojourner House</category><category>Young Voices</category><category>sexting</category></item><item><title>hkupwithrespect.com is hiring! </title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Production Assistant: hkupwithrespect.com&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;hkupwithrespect is a youth-driven social media project to promote healthy teen relationships and reduce dating violence. Our guerilla marketing stunts, interactive blog series, and video journals deal with everything from cyberbullying to sexting and give youth the tools they need to hook up with respect.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The Production Assistant will support all aspects of hkupwithrespect.com from creative development to video editing.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Required: Fluency in social networks. Sense of humor is absolutely mandatory, no exceptions. Must write good. Teenagers must like you. Ability to engage, without a shred of hesitation, in guerilla marketing stunts.  Preferred: Videography; Final Cut; tumblr; Analytics&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Outreach Assistant: Passport to Social Media&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;hkupwithrespect believes that parents provide the most powerful public health message to encourage their kids to choose healthy relationships. But, many parents feel ill equipped to navigate social media and help their children make positive choices in cyberspace. Hkupwithrespect Passport to Social Media will help parents negotiate social networks and empower their teens to keep it respectful in the cyber and real world.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The Production Assistant will support the development and implementation of Passport to Social Media including program development, conducting workshops and blog maintanence.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Required: Fluency in social networks. Sense of humor is absolutely mandatory, no exceptions. Must write good. Confident and dynamic public speaker. Parents must like you. Preferred: Program planning; knowledge of violence prevention frameworks (theoretical and practical).&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;For both positions,  we are looking for folks who can commit to 10 hours a week. Flexible schedule, some evenings and weekends. Hourly rate: $10/hr. Fringe: YouTube celebrity and associated bragging rights and the opportunity to rock out with awesome people.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;To apply please email a brief description of your qualifications and awesomeness to hkupwithrespect@gmail.com.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;!--EndFragment--&gt;</description><link>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/226041279</link><guid>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/226041279</guid><pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 12:51:08 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Staged fight draws attention to teen dating violence</title><description>&lt;a href="http://newsblog.projo.com/2009/10/fake-fight-raises-addresses-te.html"&gt;Staged fight draws attention to teen dating violence&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;hkupwithrespect takes it to the streets and makes headlines. Yesterday’s performance is generating a buzz!&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/220856779</link><guid>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/220856779</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 07:48:20 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Join the Movement at startstrongteens.com!!</title><description>&lt;p&gt;hkupwithrespect is part of Start Strong, a national movement to end teen dating violence and build healthy teen relationships! Check out &lt;a href="http://www.startstrongteens.org"&gt;www.startstrongteens.org&lt;/a&gt; to see what’s up!&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/220463569</link><guid>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/220463569</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 21:02:22 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>hkupwithrespect took it to the streets of Kennedy...</title><description>&lt;object width="400" height="336"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/ngeR7g5zflA&amp;rel=0&amp;egm=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="wmode" value="transparent"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/ngeR7g5zflA&amp;rel=0&amp;egm=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="400" height="336" allowFullScreen="true" wmode="transparent"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;hkupwithrespect took it to the streets of Kennedy Plaza—the drama capital of Providence—to talk to teens about healthy relationships.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Start Strong youth Amber and Aaron staged argument with name calling, jealousy, and controlling behavior to get everyone’s attention and show them exactly what we are out here to stop.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It worked! Not only did most of our spectators believe the argument was real, but they opened up about dating violence, healthy relationships and respect!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;hkupwithrespect.com is on a mission to get people talking about healthy relationships. We’ll be the ones with the video camera and the awesome shirts!  So consider yourself warned!&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/220450453</link><guid>http://www.hkupwithrespect.com/post/220450453</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 20:47:00 -0400</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
