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    My gf is always asking for my phone but the last time she looked she saw pictures of other girls. So I don't let her use it anymore and she's tryin to fight about it. l Comments




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    ok so i had sex with this 1 girl that i really loved but its only been a month is this cool? Comments




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    My man liked someone else so he takes her behind the trees and start kissing behind my back. Comments




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    My man cheated on me with his ex so i went on his facebook and they were writing back and fourth "i love you", "you my whole world" and "im single" Comments




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    My bf say's he has at least 80% trust in me and i need 100%. A boy would text me and he takes my phone to look at who wrote to me. He complains i don't show him love in school, but i hardly see him in school. Comments




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    My bf and I didn't talk for a while...now we are back together and he buys me a lot of things. I really like it...but i think i don't want him anymore. I just want the things he buys me. Comments




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    I strip for my boyfriend on webcam. Comments




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    I slept with my boyfriends bestfriend. He said he forgave me & were still together. Now he uses that as an excuse to cheat on me with a lot of different girls. Comments




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    soo yesterday my gf caught me holding hands with a girl i previously had sex with...we met up in person and said it was my cousin and she believes me...were living hapily ever after. Comments




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    Today I was on my way to see my boyfriend and I got a little lost cause the girl who was taking me was from out of state and did not know her way around. My boyfriend got pissed off and told me to go “fuck my self” cause I was not here on time. Comments




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    Had a thing with this girl and was about to ask her out when she broke it off. Next day she went out with one of my best friends and was like what?! Comments




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    My bf & I have been together for a year now and I really love him, but lately we've been fighting alot and it seems as though everytime we fight at school, he always acts like "he's" the victim. Comments




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    My boyfriend broke up with me cause he wanted me to pee on him and i refused. Comments




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    My gf got mad at me and pulled a steak knife on me. I quickly grabbed her arm and pushed her away. She fell back screaming and I walked out of the house. Today she walked up to me like nothing happend. Comments




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    One of my close friends decided that they would txt my girlfriend and falsely accuse me of flirting and cheating with my best friend who's a girl. I confronted my friend and they denied the whole thing. Comments




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    I kissed my cousin's girlfriend when they were broken up and she told me not to tell. Now they're back together and he still doesn't know. Comments




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    Yesterday, my best friend hacked into my Facebook and changed my birthday to say it was today. Everyone blew up my wall with "Happy Birthday" shout outs which was pretty embarrassing since it's not my birthday. Comments




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    My bf heard a rumor that I was talking to other guys. He got all heated callin me a freak and ho and whatnot. Now, he's acting all nice like it never happened. Comments




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    Today, my gf hit up my phone mad times. So I texted her to back the **** off. Is that cool? Comments




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    Today, my gf went through my phone and got all mad because she saw numbers and pictures from other girls. Comments




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    Today, I got in an argument with my gf and she hit me on the arm mad hard. Comments




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    Every time I rant or vent to my boyfriend about my life, he goes, ''OK'' as if to say, ''Whatever, I don't care.'' Comments




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    My girlfriend was having a costume party so i bought a mexican costume and she totally flipped on me calling me racist. Comments




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    is it okay to have a sex buddy? Comments




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    Today, my gf went into my Facebook and updated my status to "I have period cramps." Comments




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    My man lists himself as single on his facebook page even though we've been dating for weeks. Comments




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    I got back together with my old bf even though I have a crush on this new guy. Comments




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    My bf moved away without breaking up with me and he never calls. Comments




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    I've been with my bf for a few weeks time now and he still hasn't introduced me to his friends or family. Comments




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    My bf cheated on me with a girl and he has naked pictures of her. Since I had his password, I logged on and sent the naked pictures out to everyone. Comments




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    My bf wants me to get his name tatted on me...but we haven't even been together for a year. Comments




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    My boyfriend always brings his friends out on our dates. Comments




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    My mom doesnt want me hangin out with this guy and we've been dating for a month, but I dont wanna lie to my mom anymore so we broke up Comments




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    My gf's parents are really strict and never let her go out...so I spend time with other girls on the weekend and I don't always tell my girlfriend about it. Comments




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    My boyfriend wears the same thing every day and I really want to see him in something besides a white T. Comments




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    My boyfriend broke up with me because I told him I'm not a virgin. Comments




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    I'm in a relationship with a man but he wants an open relationship. Comments




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    I was in an abusive relationship and I left. Now he's begging me to come back. He's buying me all the good things and doin sweet stuff. I don't wanna go back but I do miss him. Comments




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    I've been really close with my guy friend for about 2 years now and I really like him. Whenever I hang out with him or go to his house and we are sitting on the couch together and I just have this urging feeling to kiss him. Comments




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    My boyfriend has a son and his baby's mother is constantly trying to get him back. He cheats on me with her but I love him. Comments




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    This girl I know is getting cheated on and she has no idea. I want to tell her the truth. Comments




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    Me and a girl were clicking really well, and believed we would make a good couple. Not long after, I found out that she had slept with 7 other guys. Comments




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    Me and my boyfriend just broke up but he still isn't over me and every time we talk I can still tell that he wants us to be together. Comments




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    My best friend and I recently started dating. He says he loves me. I want to be his gf already, but he says he wants to wait until his feelings for his ex are completely gone, but he still talks to her. Comments




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    I can't tell my gf I don't have money to buy her a birthday present for her...I'm gonna break up with her and then get her back like a week later. Comments




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    My boyfriend won't let me check his phone. Comments




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    My BF is facebook friends with this girl who always comments on all his pictures. She says, "why you gotta be so cute"...obviously flirting with him. Comments




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    My boyfriend only acts affectionate when we're alone. When we're with his friends, he won't even hold my hand. He says he's not in to PDA. Comments




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    I just started on the pill. I asked my boyfriend but he said paying for it was my responsibility. Comments




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    Every time I text my bf to find out where he is or what he's doing he always blows up saying I'm asking him the same question over and over...like I'm accusing him of something. But I keep asking because I'm not getting answer the first time. Comments




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    My ex knew i hated him drinking. And because I broke up with him for his drinking he told me to go die in a fire and i was a worthless piece of shit and that he was too good for me! Comments




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    My ex BF is madly in love with me. I tried to stop talking to him but i felt bad something told me to be friends with him... Now, he calls me everyday he tells me that he loves me calls me babe and everything. Comments




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    #youknowhatgrindsmygears My girl always comes up with excuses when I ask her to chill with me, but when her girls call her shes available. Comments




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    i have this friend who broke up with his gf. so i helped him through it and he texted me sexually. then he gets a new girlfriend... and he still texts me sexually and sends naked pictures. Comments




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    My boyfriend isn't making this relationship fun and doesn't want to do things with me. This other guy is willing to give me the world. Comments




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    my bf cheated on me with two other girls! is that cool or not , should i even stay with him ? Comments




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    2 days before december 25th my boyfriend got me a promise ring. every time we get into a fight, he tells me that we are breakin up and that hes sick of me.... how he cant stand to be with me. but when he sees how upset i am he says hes sorry. Comments




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    my bf cheated on me almost 8 mos ago.Ever since then he has been making up for it and Im convinced that he is really sorry and that he ♥'s me. Comments




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    When me and my boyfriend get into arguments he pushes me away and wont look at me when I did nothing wrong Comments




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    My gf is always asking for my phone but the last time she looked she saw pictures of other girls. So i don't let her use it anymore Comments




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    So my friend tried setting me up with a girl. It didnt work so he took her. Now they broke up, she wants me, I want her, and he said i can have her. If he said i can have her and i take her, does that make me a d*ck? Comments




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    So I got on my gf's facebook and saw that she had been IM'ing her ex, who she's slept with before, they were both calling eachother baby the whole convo. Comments




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    My bf compliments women in front of me. After he came back from a travel, he told me he saw many hot latinas and sexy asians. Comments




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    I've been friends with this guy for 3 years, but just started to talk again and I really like him although he's 2 years older. Comments




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    ireeeaaaally liked this kid, & he was being really nicee &flirty &ithought we could get somewhere , until he asked me to bop him . Comments




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    My man's ex hacked into my facebook and put up all this crap about me. When I told him he yelled at me and told me I was overreacting Comments




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    I'm in love with a girl...We have broken up twice...Each time she slept with a guy the same night...Things are great now. Comments




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    me n my bf been together a year now, he loves me to death but im not feelin it no more. he'll b heart broken. i think ill just stay wit him Comments




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    So my boyfriends extremely bipolar. He makes me miserable but i love him. I cry almost every time im with him and he laughs right in my face Comments




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    I'm a guy dating another guy. I'm nervous about how my family'll react, but I like him a lot and I think I'm ready to face them about it. Comments




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    Sometimes guys think its okay to hit girls in certain situations Comments




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    I ate my boyfriends pet frog accidentally so he broke up with me! Comments




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    I was with this guy for about 2 months. We never saw each other, but every time we did he wanted to get into my pants. I broke up with him. Comments




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    my boyfriend thinks its okay to hangout with another girl while we are dating... Comments




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    my girl wants to do me but i want to save it for marriage. Comments




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    i feel like ill never fit the shoes of My b4 ex even tho i kno he doesnt do it on purpose and he sees us as different ppl. Comments




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    So me and my gf parted ways because of college and we are committed to staying together through a long distance relationship. Comments




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    My man always seems to choose electronics over me. Comments




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    I like this guy that I've gone out w/2xs In the past year. I'm Not old enough to be dating yet. Vote Cool If U think I should go out again Comments




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    I broke up with my bf b/c a bunch of diff ppl are tellin me that hes feelin up or kissin other grls . But im not 100% sure thiss is true Comments




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    I've been with my boyfriend for going on 9 months now. I love him to death, but sometimes I feel like unsure. Comments




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    My best friend and I really liked each other, but I didn't know how to show/tell him. He moved to Mass. (for other reasons) & got a gf fast. Comments




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    this guy just got out of a long relationship & started tlkin to me we have this connection but Idk if we should go out or be friends for now Comments




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    My ex cheated, lied, was disrespectful and unppreciative. But I still miss him. I hate it. Comments




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    I've been with my current boyfriend for 3 years.I found out last month he was sexting another girl. We talked. It happened again last night. Comments




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    Abuse takes on many forms. Study the signs, watch the stages, and call the hotline if in doubt. Love shouldn't hurt! Trust ur gut! Comments




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    I was hooking up with this guy for a few months and he was falling for me but he ended it because he didn't want to settle down yet. Wtf Comments




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    some one was talking really bad about my best friend and i told my best friend. cool not cool? Comments




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    this guy who is really into me and im really into him, tagged himself in pics of him and his ex kissing on fb... he said he loves me aaf Comments




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    My best friend calls me a slut...she says she's only joking around... Comments




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    My ex boyfriend has a baby with another girl. I haven't seen him in 9 months. Today he shows up at my work and asks me out for Valentines Da Comments




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    i was bff with this girl and we were like sisters.Someone told her that i called her a slut when i didnt and she got all my friends against me. Comments




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    There is this guy I like but he has a gf he knows I like him and he likes me I don't know how to tell him I'm jealous Comments




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    my boyfriend's been acting really weird lately, i don't think hes feeling it anymore but whenever i ask him he says im overreacting... Comments




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    everyone has love.....i want love too but i never find it Comments




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    my husband thinks that if i want to get something pierced it's because someone else has it done. I think he thinks i have no personallity Comments




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    if my sister tells me something personal can i tell my mother if its something that can harm her? Comments




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    I had sex with my friend's mom. Comments




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    I feel mistreated Comments




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    I've been with the same boy for 3-1/2 years, he always gets mad, breaks my shit, but never touches me. But my things are always getting broken.. Thousands of dollars down the drain.. Then he's sorry... ndb he says... Comments




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    My bf used to tlk to random girls thru text or fb, I kno he never physically cheated on me. So I stayed with him. Comments




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    i had a sex buddy who had a babymother. i would get jealous everythime he wouldnt answer my texts cuz he was with her. Comments




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    when i was 15 i was in a abusive relationship now i have a baby with him.Its been 3yrs now... its completely over and im much happier. Comments




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    I like a girl who is older than me... should i make a move or leave the ball in her court... because she holds the cards being older Comments




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    I go out with an amazing guy, he cheated on me twice. I cant break up with him...everytime I get em mad he yells at me and calls me a snake Comments




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    i have 1 son my bf has 3 kids and his ex is a physco path. i feel like i cant deal with all his babymama drama. Comments




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    theres this girl i like but she messes with my brother i cant take it.. Comments




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    The girl I loved broke up with me and it's been months but she still comes to me with her problems even though she has a bf now. It hurts... Comments




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    i broke up with this girl after 1 year but i still love her, she has a boyfriend now but we still talk alot Comments




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    my boyfriend has been hooking up with other girls. what do i? do leave him because i know i will go right back to him. Comments




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    My "friend" startes this lie about me that I pushed this girl. And now my "bff" called me everything in the book on fb. I'm losing my friend Comments




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    I like this girl and we went on a few dates, but every time I try to have a conversation about what we are, she says I'm being too serious Comments




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    I have a ex who treated me like crap and now shes coming back saying she loves me and that she misses me Comments




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    my best friend went on vacation & made out with this guy while she had a boyfriend, but she says she wants to keep it between us.. Comments




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    i hooked up with some girl and she never really listeened2 me cuz she was always usin me for my money and sex and she almost raped me Comments




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    i love this boy but i made a mistake...and i have a huge crush on him and i don't know what 2 do 2 make us friends again Comments




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    my boyfriend went behind my back and tried to get my brother and my cuzins to do drugs with him i caught him and told him we were over. Comments




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    i just had a threesome with two girls. my boyfriend got jealous but i just didnt want to include him. Comments




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    i had many friends and still do but some talk sh*t behind my back. i feel lost and idk what to do Comments




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    i think sexting is stupid. Comments




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    My boyfriend needs a real job Comments




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    my long distance boyfriend on facebook acts like he dosent have a girlfriend, & is married too a different girl on facebook. Comments




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    i'm a girl dating a girl and we've been together for a year now i really love her bt idk how to tell my grandparents :/ they mean a lot to me Comments




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    my boyfriends ex knows that we've been together for 6mon. and comes and has the nerve saying she wants him back and she wants to have sex ! Comments




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    my bf cheated on me w/ this girl. i try to talk to him abt it but he always tells me the same old thing. Comments




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    me & my bf have been together for 6 months.he's always saying that it doesn't seem like i luv him.but i do. but at the same time i feel nothing 4 him Comments




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    Whenever my girlfriend goes out, she flirts with other guys and she thinks its ok as long as she aint doin nothing with them. Comments




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    This guy and I have decided to no longer be friends for awhile because of disrespect. He invited me to his party, do i go? Comments




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    I had a relationship with this girl.It didn't go far but now she has a new relationship.The gf is jealous and won't let us hang out. Comments




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    My fiance has a son by his ex gf...but it right to stay with him? ugghh...it almost our one year anniversary...i still loving him nomatterwhat Comments




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    I wanna get married,but my bf doesn't want to,we've been together for 3 and and a half years.and we don't wanna be with anyone else. Comments




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    My mom keeps hinting like my dad abuses her. I know my dad drinks heavily and has anger issues. I am leaving it alone. Comments




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    i really like pie Comments




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    My bf has a kid , recently his bm got kicked out of her house and moved in with my bf and his fam, he didnt want the baby in the streets. Comments




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    i love my gf alot an she loves me too bt she gotten hurt and dont wanna let her guard down. Comments




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    I farted real loud and my bf broke up with me Comments




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    I need to find a way to stop bullying/cyberbulling...Comment ideas and click cool if you wanna support my ideas. Together, we can stop this! Comments




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    im gay and i've been with this girl for 8 months long gone through mad stuff; but lately i dont know what to do, i dont wanna break up. Comments



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